A DIFFERENT APPROACH TO DATING
Love Shouldn't Require
You to Lower Your Standards.
Modern dating may have changed,
but knowing your worth never goes out of style.
At The Dating Rules by Danielle, we believe meaningful relationships begin with clarity,
confidence and the courage to honor what matters most to you.
Because finding love should never mean losing yourself.
THE WOMAN BEHIND THE RULES
Meet Danielle.
Dating has changed.
The importance of knowing your worth hasn't.
Through The Dating Rules by Danielle, Danielle offers a thoughtful approach to modern dating, helping women navigate relationships with greater clarity, confidence and intention.
Her philosophy is simple: meaningful love begins with understanding your standards, recognizing what you deserve and making choices that honor both.
Because the right relationship should complement the woman you are, not require you to become someone else.
THE RULES WORK.
2 Million+ Copies Sold Worldwide
First published in 1995, The Rules became an international bestseller, inspiring conversations about dating, love and relationships for over three decades.
2M+
Copies Sold Worldwide
1995
The Year It
All Began
27
Languages Reported
WAYS TO WORK WITH DANIELLE
Love, On Your Terms.
Whether you're navigating modern dating or preparing for a new beginning, find the guidance that meets you where you are.
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What do the celebrities have to say...
Beyonce
“If he invited you out, he’s got to pay.”
“When you really don’t like a guy, he’s all over you, and as soon as you act like you like him, he’s no longer interested.” (CosmoGIRL!)
“[The Rules] has worked for me.” (Us Weekly)
Oprah
“Men like Rules women.”
“The Rules isn’t just a book, it’s a movement, honey!”
Kimora Lee Simmons
“…I fully admit to loving that book The Rules—that’s my handbook on how I got married. Dating is nothing but a game. So the advice you get in some magazines, ‘Never play games, tell him how you feel, be vulnerable and show your heart’—it’s so bogus!” (Fabulosity)
Kelly Rowland
“Don’t ever call! If he’s interested, he’ll call….I just finished
reading The Rules. That is the best book ever.”
“I’m old-fashioned. He’s got to call. He’s gotta open the door and pull your chair out.”
“You’ve got have a life besides marriage, because you don’t want your husband to get sick of you hanging around the house all day. It’s part of The Rules.” (CosmoGIRL!)
Michelle Williams
“The Rules is wonderful, but don’t put that in the interview. I don’t want guys to know what were doing!” (CosmoGIRL!)
Catherine Zeta-Jones
Catherine-Zeta Jones told Vanity Fair magazine that her mother taught her “not to give it all away” to a man. Indeed! She was Rules-y from the moment she met Michael Douglas. The actor told her he wanted to father her children, to which she replied good night and walked away.
Goldie Taylor
“The Rules is a fantastic book. I saw it online and I had to get it. It was something I taught to my daughters and talked to my girlfriends about. Women ought to be women. We should embrace the mystique of being a woman [instead of] deciding we are going to be the aggressors.”
Cheryl Tiegs
“For most of my life, I was not a Rules Girl. If a guy called, I called right back. There was no intrigue. Then, about 10 years ago (in 1995) I read the book and it became my bible.”
Andre Agassi
“If you ever want to know what it feels like to be completely pursued and appreciated, just ask Steffi …I was persistent, let’s leave it at that.”
Hugh Grant
“Being famous doesn’t get in the way of dating…it makes it alarmingly easy…in a way it’s boring. I quite like the chase.”
Mira Sorvino
“There is one thing about The Rules philosophy…it all boils down to the fact that you have to play hard to get. You have to treat yourself with self-respect and establish a little bit of distance, so the guy has to step up to the plate and act right. If things are not going the way they should in a relationship, step back a little.” (Redbook)
Kevin & Danielle Jonas
“When I met Danielle, I was the one that was pursuing her most of the time and I didn’t want her out of my sight. She actually ran away twice. I had to get her number through the sister, can you believe that?”
Ed & Christy Turlington
“Basically she told me I had no shot…[so] I persisted for five years.”
WAYS TO WORK WITH DANIELLE
It's Not About Playing Games.
IT'S ABOUT KNOWING
YOUR WORTH.
The Rules are about approaching dating with intention, maintaining your standards and remembering that the right relationship should never require you to lose yourself.
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EVERY LOVE STORY HAS A CHAPTER
Where Are You in Your Love Story?
Whether you're ready to date with intention, finding your footing after heartbreak or embracing a fresh start, there's a path forward.
For the woman who wants to approach modern dating with clarity, confidence and intention.
For the woman moving forward after heartbreak and rebuilding confidence in herself and her future.
For the woman rediscovering love and possibility after divorce or a major life transition.
A NOTE FROM DANIELLE
You Deserve a Love That Feels Right.
You don't have to abandon your standards to find love.
You deserve a relationship that respects who you are, what you value and the future you envision.
My hope is to help you approach dating with confidence, clarity and the courage to choose what truly aligns with you.
With Love, Danielle
